This post is dedicated to the Knights-in-Training and to those wondering how to catch a young ladies attention.... My personal "truths" and experiences on How To be a girl's Prince Charming...
Thee Basics...
1. Once Upon a Time... WAIT! Did Prince Charming exist in 2012???
First! Let us address the Prince Charming title. Realistically there is no Prince Charming. Fellas, we know. And we know we are not no grand princesses. But we, as women, do hope for some enchanting, sweeping off our feet moments of love. (YES, momentS with an "S". Because this should occur more often than the first date, engagement, or wedding day). And I am a firm believer in not settling for less than what you deserve, even if it means standing alone. So with that being said, every man should treat his wife, girl he is courting, and women in general, with a royal attitude.
2. Sliding doors don't charm a girl... a man opening each door does.
Something that I ALWAYS come back after a first date noting to my roommates/friends is how often, (or if it even happened), the guy opened the door for me. These doors include entering and exiting a place (restaurant, house, car, the gym, class, etc.) Whether she is passenger, in the back seat, or driving... OPEN THE DOOR. Makes her feel like a woman. If she gives you permission to stop, you may, until then keep it coming. And keep it going after the first date, after marriage, and until she dies.
Personally opening a door, is like the beginning of opening up my heart.
**BONUS POINTS!** Open for other women when she is around. Melt her heart with that!
3. Wrap her up in laughter! :)
One of thee most attractable qualities for a guy (in my book) is humor! Best way to see if I'm comfortable with you, is to see if I can laugh with you. True, deep laughter. The kind that keeps you chuckling and smiling even after the joke was told 5 minutes ago. The kind that makes her give you the "you're the coolest kid on the block" look. Is she breathy laugh and a simple smile then you aren't taking down her walls. This may take some time. But all effort is noticed.
4. H always comes before K... Hugs. Hands. Holding. Kisses.
The order to show her you care and respect her. Although she wants the K first, she will appreciate the H's before the big K!
Hugs... Not side hugs. Not pat on the back, job well done hugs. Hug her like you like her. Make her feel little in your arms like its a shelter. Long enough to show 'yeah, I like you', but not too long to show 'yeah, I'm being creepy'.
Hands... as scary as it is reach for her hand. It's like reaching for her moon. Landing the hand holding shows you are in it with her. It's more meaning than a hug, so be careful when using it. But its the next step in saying 'Let's see where this goes'.
Holding... Like cuddling, but not cliche and cheesy. A girl can tell the difference between having a cuddle sesh and being held. Her dad held her, (meaning he made her feel safe and care free). Make a big move and show you care and HOLD her.
Kisses... the first kisses with any guy should be magical. Lead up to it with a laugh, a compliment, eye gazing, or something that can make her have a mental picture of that moment forever... you never know if that will be hers and yours last, first kiss. ;) Kisses speak louder than words at times. So make sure you are ready for the non-verbal expression before using it. To her your kiss should be worth a thousand words!
Final words of advice... each girl is different and should be treated as such... each moment to her is a magical one if you play it right. By showing you're a man she will have confidence in you. By showing her you care you will gain a new best friend in her. Do both and own a Princess!
